Counseling & Testing Crisis Services:

A designated Crisis Services counselor is available during office hours (8 a.m. – 5 p.m.) to consult with members of the university community regarding crisis situations. Individuals are able to access these services if they are experiencing significant personal distress that requires immediate attention. If you are in need of these services please call our front desk at (405) 325-2911 or 325-2700 and inform them that you need to make an appointment with our on-call counselor.  If there is an immediate medical emergency, call 911 on or off campus.

 

In addition, members of the university may also speak to the on-call counselor if you are worried about the immediate needs of a friend, family member, colleague or student. Please feel free to call and consult with the on-call counselor.

 

Warning Signs of Suicide (obtained from http://www.suicidology.org/):

 

Get help now if:

• Someone is threatening to hurt or kill him/herself, or talking of wanting to hurt or kill him/herself.

• Someone is looking for ways to kill him/herself by seeking access to firearms, available pills, or other means.

• Someone is talking or writing about death, dying or suicide, when these actions are out of the ordinary for the person.

 

Get help as soon as possible if you are aware of someone who is displaying:

• Hopelessness

• Rage, uncontrolled anger, seeking revenge

• Acting reckless or engaging in risky activities, seemingly without thinking

• Feeling trapped – like there’s no way out

• Increased alcohol or drug use

• Withdrawing from friends, family and society

• Anxiety, agitation, unable to sleep or sleeping all the time

• Dramatic mood changes

• No reason for living; no sense of purpose in life

 

What to Do:

1. Be aware. Learn the warning signs.

2. Get involved. Become available. Show interest and support.

3. Ask if he/she is thinking about suicide.

4. Be direct. Talk openly and freely about suicide.

5. Be willing to listen. Allow for expression of feelings. Accept the feelings.

6. Be non-judgmental. Don’t debate whether suicide is right or wrong, or feelings are good or bad. Don’t lecture on the value of life.

7. Don’t dare him/her to do it.

8. Don’t give advice by making decisions for someone else to tell them to behave differently.

9. Don’t ask ‘why’. This encourages defensiveness.

10. Offer empathy, not sympathy.

11. Don’t act shocked. This creates distance.

12. Don’t be sworn to secrecy. Seek support.

13. Offer hope that alternatives are available, do not offer glib reassurance; it only proves you don’t understand.

14. Take action! Remove means! Get help from individuals or agencies specializing in crisis intervention and suicide prevention.

 

Contact Counseling & Testing if crisis counseling or consultation is needed, if you have questions or concerns, or if you are interested in obtaining a speaker on this topic.

 

Other Crisis Services:

 

OU Number Nyne (8 p.m. – 4 a.m.) 

405-325-NYNE (325-6963)

CONTACT Crisis Helpline                         

405-848-2273

 

National Hopeline Network                         

1-800-SUICIDE (1-800-784-2433) OR 1-800-442-HOPE (1-800-442-4673)

 

National Suicide Prevention Lifeline           

1-800-273-TALK (1-800-273-8255) TTY: 1-800-799-4TTY (1-800-799-4889)

 

Sexual Assault Response Team               

Dial 911 (on campus) or 325-1911 (off campus or by cell) and ask for OU SART

 

Emergency Services or Hospitalization:

Red Rock Behavioral Health - Norman        405-573-6466

Norman Regional Behavioral Health            405-307-5555

 

Additional on and off campus emergency numbers are maintained on the OUPD site.

 

Other Links:

Jill Campaign– A campaign to raise awareness and prevent suicide on OU campus

 

American Association of Suicidology– professional education and resource organization

 

American Foundation for Suicide Prevention – nonprofit organization focused on suicide prevention, resources for those who have lost a loved one to suicide

 

ULifeline – contains information and self-evaluation related to mental health

National Association of Mental Illness– advocacy organization those with mental illnesses and their families


Suicide Fact Sheets (obtained from http://www.suicidology.org):

Understanding and Helping the Suicidal Individual

If You Are Considering Suicide